Official toir?? Anyone have any info?

[Freeman]

Just wondering if shes really legit seemed like she'd like to come and party on someone else's dollar haha witch is absolutely fine but just wondering if that would bring unwanted attention to the door

[Touchingtori]

dude, i have a house, a degree and a life. not sure where you got your info. i also just moved here. and i dont party with anyone. but, you go glen coco.

[Touchingtori]

Whats with the preconceived judgements that we, or atleaed i, consistently get.
Im tired of seeing posts in here about me from people who havent even said hi?
I just read, :has anyone seen tori, looks like shed party on your dime, and bring unwanted attention"

Just so we can be clear, and maybe ill be a bit less articulate for you..
- i have a home, a vehicle, a degree, and i wouldnt accept anything but by rate.
-i can party of my own dime, and it wouldnt be with a client
- i have no "unwanted" type of friends, no crazy family embers
- i jsut moved here, i stay home a write, im a writer, and a researcher
- i dont have many reviews, because i have many jobs, nd im seletive as i only see a few people per week
STOP JUDGING SEX WORKERS

[MatureGuy123]

There are a few negative reviews around about you. No one reading your posts would believe you are a writer. Sorry.

[Touchingtori]

OH no! a negative review! Ill go cry with my hairdryer in my bathtub i suppose?

I think a girl can defend herself when she reads a post from someone she has never met, stating they are basically a low-life that would bring attention. I give you 5 minutes with me and you would change your mind pretty darn fast. I said i write, im not an author, you have no idea what i write, or in what language...etc.

Ive read bad reviews form a dude that i told couldn't do something. Another one from a dude that attempted to rape me, who i was lucky enough to get away from. From a man who sent me a fake giftcard, that i didn't use, and then didn't send him anything- so he complained. Theres always two sides of the story, but many of us girls dont reach out- because of EXACTLY THIS.

Theres always attacks on us, and insults, and you all like to bring up every negative thing you think you know bout us, its sad- really. I defend myself, an then i get insulted about my looks, my job, and everything in between. This is not just relevant to this post. No wonder girls dont stand up for themselves- i wish this community had "community moms" or someone that would actually support us.

If only i could review dudes because there would be a few negative reviews on them also. For every negative review, theres 100 good ones.

For every negative review you read, jut remember, he couldve done many things, or hurt me.

When someone assaults me then reviews me negativly, its really sad that every man defends him. If i wrote a review, i really dont think anyone would support me at all, in fact, its men like you that make women not have their voice.

Did assaulting me and my career, or lack of in your opinion, help you feel better about yourself? OR justify degrading 20 year old on the internet? OR was it just to try and make me sad today?

Anyways, to all you dudes talking about me on the internet-
Im a 20 year women, trying to feed my child, trying to make ends meet.
You never know what someone is going through, you dont know me, but i bet youd still fuck me anyways.
Get a hobby, or something instead of insulting young girls on the internet then jerking off to their photos. xx

Call me anytime baby!

[MatureGuy123]

All you say is true, I apologize if I offended you. There's just so many scammers on here that it makes people mistrusful of everyone. Stay safe.

[Hot_Rod]

Just wondering if shes really legit seemed like she'd like to come and party on someone else's dollar haha witch is absolutely fine but just wondering if that would bring unwanted attention to the door

Dude, if you're wondering if she's legit, then post a message asking if anyone has seen her, what were their experiences, that sort of thing. Posting things like "SEEMED like she'd like to party on someone else's dollar", and then laughing about it, without the benefit of knowing anything about her, is pure speculation, and can be damaging if read the wrong way by the right people... and, really, not cool! Capiche??

[Hot_Rod]

Theres always attacks on us, and insults, and you all like to bring up every negative thing you think you know bout us, its sad- really. I defend myself, an then i get insulted about my looks, my job, and everything in between. This is not just relevant to this post. No wonder girls dont stand up for themselves- i wish this community had "community moms" or someone that would actually support us.

If only i could review dudes because there would be a few negative reviews on them also. For every negative review, theres 100 good ones.

Hi Tori. Just wanted to address this bit in particular. On the main site, there actually is a place where you can review clients!! I've been advocating for its use for ages, but none of the providers seem to want to take advantage of it.
As you are probably aware, on the top bar of the main site, there is a link called "REVIEWS - SERVICE PROVIDERS", where clients can post reviews - good and bad - about their chosen provider, and share the experiences they have had. But, there is also a link on that top bar called "OTHER CATEGORIES". If you click on that, it opens up a drop down menu, where one of the first items in there is "REVIEWS - CLIENTS". You can actually post reviews of your great - and not-so-great - clients - in there.

So, if you wanted to post a review about a client, you can do so the usual way. Click the link at the top of the page that says "Post an ad". Then when the new screen pops up, in the "Category" area, click on "Reviews - Clients", then complete the rest of the fields in the screen to make your review. I would strongly encourage this. I totally agree that not only can there be good and bad providers (and scammers), but there can also be great, and terrible, clients, including scam clients whose intent may be to simply troll providers, attempt to attain pics without paying for them, or even worse, injure or abuse providers and their loved ones. So, I think it's great that we have an avenue to vent these concerns for both clients and providers alike. Please feel free to avail of this, and if you have any questions, I'm always available to answer them!

Also, I'm not sure if the group still exists, but as a sub-group of the Status of Women's Council here in St. John's, there was (possibly still is) a group known as S.H.O.P. - The Safe Harbour Outreach Project. They offer a number of programs and services for sex trade workers, and are a valuable resource in this community. I just did a quick check, and it looks like their web site is still active. Here's the link, if you're interested in checking it out.

https://sjwomenscentre.ca/programs/shop/

All the best to you!

[709wentworth]

There is always two sides to a story. Tori you should put out your reviews of possible shifty clients or experiences and get the conversation going. And you will get the defense you need from clients who recommend your service.

[Hot_Rod]

Actually, there are usually "3" sides to every story... there's your side, then there's their side, and then there's that "middle" side, where, in almost all cases, you'll find the majority of the truth. You know, the side where you take the common bits of both of the other sides, because these bits both sides agree on, and you add in the bits that both sides leave out, because it's damaging to their own version of events. Put all that together, and that's where the real story lies.

As for judging sex workers... I tend to agree that name calling and other abusive language hurled at ANYONE is not right, either way!!

In the meantime, sex workers, or service providers, as they are called here locally, are doing exactly that. They are providing a variety of services, services that are appreciated by a very select clientele. This clientele extends well beyond the confines of our little group. Unfortunately, I cannot speak to the integrity of those people. However, I CAN speak to any "reviews" that are posted here in this forum. To be honest, I haven't seen any negative reviews of "Officially Tori". In fact, I haven't seen any reviews of her at all on this forum. However, I'd be glad to discuss with her any of the reviews she's gotten here locally on this forum that may have been posted nefariously. We deal with that here pretty often. The majority of the time, it's rival providers posting fake reviews against "competition" in order to drive them out of the business. Sad when this happens, because I think there's more than enough business for everyone here to do well, if it's handled properly, and I agree with Tori that the ladies here should all be supporting each other, not trying to tear each other down.

The only negative comment I've seen about Tori in this forum was actually on the main site, in the "Scammers" section. One particular comment indicating that they paid for pictures but never got them, and was then ghosted by her when he tried to reach out. I have requested that the user submit some kind of proof that contact was made either way, or I will be removing the complaint.

In the meantime, if someone does indeed send cash for any kind of service, and that service is not provided regardless of the reason, then they should get their cash back, or receive a replacement service of equal value either way. Simply keeping their cash just because you can, or because you don't like the way they're behaving after not receiving the promised service, is not cool, and is sure to get you labelled as a scammer. By the way, guys and gals, this is not directed at any one person in particular... it's true of ANYONE who provides a service, takes money for that service, and then fails to provide it. It's also true of any CLIENT who requests a service, receives it, and then fails to provide the proper compensation for the service. This is a sure fire way to get labelled as a bad client, and someone to be avoided in future dealings.

That said, I fully support the review process. And, I support the use of it for both providers, and their clients. There are good and bad on BOTH sides of the fence, and both deserve to be praised, or called out, as the case may be. I've seen a lot of ads on this site over the years that I've indulged in "The Hobby", and I can tell you that there are many flavors of providers on this site, females, males, and trans-gender providers submit ads to this site regularly. ALL of them are entitled to have a voice, just as clients are, in my opinion, totally within their rights to share their experiences about a provider to this forum. Is that considered "Judging"?? Perhaps, perhaps not. Service providers who offer great service deserve to be recognized for their great efforts, just as scammers, need to be called out, and pointed out to the group as people to be avoided. As for legit providers who aren't that good at what they do, that's a matter of personal preference, in my opinion. Clients should have every right to express that opinion, without a lot of name calling. Again, I also believe it goes both ways: Providers should also feel perfectly comfortable to call out the clients that fail to pay, or harass them, or worse, and to give kudos to those clients who show up, pay the provider their rate as agreed upon between them, and do not cause incidents during the session. However, if someone disagrees with your personal opinion about something, doesn't mean that it's a personal attack on you or your character. But, if there are indeed personal attacks against individuals on here, feel free to bring it to my attention. I've already reprimanded a number of offending posters on this site in the past, and I'd be glad to help sort things out. But, I'd hope that, as consenting adults, you all can sort out these kind of things through private chat.

That's all from me for now...