I'm sorry, dude! Me is backwoods bayman redneck hick hillbilly, and gots no smarts at all...
When most people talk about receipts, they usually mean they paid for something, and have something tangible to back up the fact that they paid for it. Based on the private messages I've gotten so far about this, I'm not the only one who thought that was what you meant. However, the word "receipt" can be taken to mean any kind of acknowledgement that you RECEIVED something from someone! So, if you're chirping that you have "RECEIPTS", I'll take it to mean that you have actual snippets of conversation with Nev HERSELF in which she implicates herself scamming you. If that's the case, feel free to send me screen shots of THAT conversation (you know, the one where she actually drops herself in the fire scamming you), and I'll be happy to personally deal with the situation.
On the other hand...
If you have saved conversations with your buddies, in which you are telling them how this girl scammed you, and you've saved that stuff, then that's pretty much worthless, because that would still be just YOUR word.
Here's what I've gotten so far...
You posted a warning about Nev in the group saying you've seen her many times before and recently, you got burned by her.
Then, I saw a plea from Nev herself (I assume) saying that she did not, and would not ever, scam or hurt her clients in any way.
Then I see a direct message from you to Nev, on this board, accusing her of lying and robbing customers.
In amongst all of this, I see numerous posts from some of Nev's clients, including myself, indicating that in all the dealings we've had with her, we've NEVER had a problem.
And then, there's the Private Message you sent me, where you pretty much lay out YOUR side of what happened, I won't lay out all of what you stated in that message, because some of it is of a rather personal nature. But, I WILL share some of the more relevant bits here on the board:
You know Nev, apparently, outside the confines of "The Hobby", and have done favors for her in the past to get her out of rough spots. So, based on that "friendship", you entered into an arrangement with her for a larger share of cash, and party favours, in exchange for an extended-time session. That's cool, and that happens quite frequently here. However, about halfway through the agreed time (or less), a group of guys barge into her house, rough you up a bit, and kick you out. When you try to message her to get an explanation, she blocked you. These are the established statements that you sent me in PM.
However, the fact that you have an extra curricular friendship with her, and the fact that I'm only getting one side of this story, tells me that there's a lot more going on here than what you've told me. I don't doubt the large majority of what you told me in your message, but I'm also interested in what I HAVEN'T yet been told. I'm also interested in getting NEV's side of things, because, there's usually always two sides to every story, and somewhere in the middle, the WHOLE truth usually sits.
Here's the thing, one way or another, a serious accusation has been made against an SP by a potential client. Given that I've been very personally affected by a potential scam, and a threat of personal harm / blackmail, I can tell you that I take these accusations VERY seriously, as does the site admin. So, as for "chilling", as you ask me to do, sorry, no can do. The accusation has been made, so now we need to get to the truth of it, so that, if it warrants it, the offending party or parties are dealt with accordingly. It could lead to someone being permanently banned from advertising here on NL Adult. That kind of stuff can seriously affect an SPs ability to earn a living. So, I hope you'll understand my decision NOT to "chill" as you put it. Admin has already banned two accounts/profiles this past week, with at least a third one in the works. Perhaps there'll be a 4th (or 5th)???
I've already got a pretty decent idea of what I believe happened here (and yes, I do actually believe that something DID happen), so if you'd like to offer up any real, TANGIBLE evidence that supports your story, I'd be more than willing to consider it.
Also, if xxxNev is reading this, feel free to contact me directly here on the site, and share your thoughts on this situation. You're obviously affected by all of this too, so anything you can share with me that would help shed light on this would be greatly appreciated.