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Guys, any recommendations for a service provider (female!) that allows anal? None of the reliable providers (Jules, Summer "Top Rated", Jennifer the original curvy blonde, Tori) seem to do it. There's a new one that has it in her price list (this one) but around here new equals likely scam

If an SP wanted it out there, she would have included it in her ad, just like the one you mention.

Thanks for the PM scooter. While I respect where you're coming from with your other comments, it's only doing a disservice to customers for a provider not to list what they're offering. This is doubly true since so many SPs are flaky about responding to messages, or are outright scams. If they only want to offer it to certain customers, then they just have to say so. It's implicit that an SP can deny any service (or all service!) if they don't like the client for some reason.

Imagine you want to eat a steak but no restaurant lists it on their menu and instead you have to ask if they have it! Further, imagine that you posted a question on a foodie forum asking where you could eat steak, and another customer chastised you for it and said it's something you should discuss with each restaurant. Are these people running a business or not?

Hope we can agree to disagree.

I think our main point of disagreement is whether an SP should feel shame or embarrassment about their chosen line of work and the services they offer. You seem to believe these things should only be discussed in private like some sort of dirty secret. I don't think they have anything to be ashamed about (not even the "crass" request I have) and simply wish they'd be more forthcoming about the services they offer, just as any other business would be. Nevertheless, I do understand your perspective and as you said yourself, I think this is something we'll just have to agree to disagree about.

I'd like to know who offers as well. Thanks.

@Scooter, Love your approach to all of this, love that level of respect for the SPs.

I definitely see where both sides are coming from here but I lean to agree with Scooter. If you are having trouble finding the service you just may need to chat more with some of the SPs or even get to know one through a few sessions before they trust you enough to offer some "VIP" options. You may see it as disservice to the customer but you might also recognize the marketing approach of getting a customer interested in your services and getting them through the door before you get to brass tacks.